Category Archives: Musings

Food For The Soul

SONY DSCYesterday I turned off my computer, pulled on garden gloves, and worked on the pots on my back deck.  I didn’t just stick new annuals into the holes left from the dead things I pulled out (my usual modus operandi).  I refilled the pots with fresh soil and set up a few new pots.  The sun was shining.

The SUN was shining!  It was HOT! What a glorious day. I topped it off with a ferry ride to my daughter’s evening lacrosse game. They were playing a team on Bainbridge Island, just across the sound from Seattle. Crisp air, blue sky, Seattle skyline behind me and shadowy blue mountains looming just past the island – food for the soul.  I watched the water rushing below me, the only way you could tell that the ferry was moving fast.

I gave a huge sigh and let it all go – all the tension, stress, and anxiety.  I just breathed.

They won an incredibly exciting, well matched game.  On the ride home, I stood on the upper ferry deck  and watched the full moon glisten the dark water. Seattle’s skyline sparkled, orange jewels strung against the night.

I just breathed.

Pantsing Your Life

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Writers often classify themselves as pantsers, plotters (outliners) or some combination of both.

  • Pantsers are those who write by the seats of their pants. No plan, no outline, nothing is set in stone. The story emerges with a life all its own, often taking unexpected twists and turns along the way.

I was thinking about this the other day and realized this is how I live my life.  In part this is something that happens to many work-at-home people, just by the nature of working without an imposed structure, without a clock-in, sign-in job.

I don’t follow a routine, and things often distract me and send me down various rabbit holes and side streets.  I might intend to write X words or revise Y story on a day, but I get an email concerning something at my volunteer job that needs following up, or I look outside and get an idea about how to rejigger the garden… and of course dinner and shopping and laundry and kids and housework and taxes and filing …. you get the picture.  Or, I need to do all those things and I start a story and my mind is lit on fire – eight hours later and I have a story but I haven’t done any of the other things I’m responsible for.

Overall, I get enough results this way – my home responsibilities get done, more or less; I have stories published and more written & subbed; I manage to finish my non-fiction freelance work; I do things with family and friends.  But what if I lived my life with more intention, following through on my intentions?  Could I reach the next level, get more done, write more effectively, use my time more efficiently?

I’m probably too old to change completely, but I’d like to start small and add one or two routines and see if I can up my game, just a little.

What are some routines you follow?  Are you also a pantser or an organized plotter of your life?